Our promise to you

No shaming. No pressure. You're always in control.

A promise is a lovely thing to give and a terrible thing to weaponise. So VowShare is built around five rules, and we won't break them.

Your photos and your data

When you make a card from a photo, the photo is used once to draw the card and then deleted. Finished cards belong to the two of you: either of you can remove one with a tap. We never use your pictures for marketing or to train anything. Children don't have accounts; a grown-up makes cards with them, and their cards only go to people the grown-up already knows.

Questions people ask

Does the person I send to need the app?

No. The card arrives on WhatsApp, text or email. They tap the link, it opens in their browser, and they sign to accept with one tap. Nothing to download.

Is a VowShare legally binding?

No. A VowShare is a social commitment between two people, not a contract. It can't be used for money, debts or anything owed in law — and we'll remove any that try.

What happens when a promise is kept?

Whoever made it taps Kept. Both of you get a little celebration and the card becomes a keepsake. That's the whole point.

What if it isn't kept?

The promiser gets gentle reminders, and the recipient can send a nudge ("still waiting for that coffee..."). That's as far as it goes. No scores, no shame.

Can I get a card on real card, through the post?

Yes. Posted cards are £7.99, printed on proper card, with the digital version still tracked in the app.

Someone sent me a card I don't want.

Decline it without opening it; they won't be told. Block them and they can't reach you again from any account. Report it and we'll look at it.

Can children use VowShare?

With a grown-up. Children don't have accounts. A parent's account can make cards with a child, and those cards only go to people already in the parent's contacts. Schools get paper Promise Packs — no logins, no data.

What will you promise today?

We're launching soon. Leave your email and you'll be first to make one.